Thursday, December 6, 2012

STOP TELLING ME TO "JUST GET PREGNANT!"

Just a heads up....there will probably be some profanity in this because I'm at my wit's end. I am SO tired of everyone telling me to "just get pregnant." It's the freaking solution to EVERYTHING, apparently. I was asking advice on how to lose weight and someone says "just get pregnant." I was saying I needed something to do that weekend and someone says "just get pregnant." I wanted to buy baby clothes for my niece and someone says "just get pregnant." ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME!!! You KNOW what has been consuming my life for the past two years!!!! I. AM. TRYINGGGGG! You don't know how UPSET it makes me when my friends say "Just have a baby already!" It only adds to my stress. I already cry myself to sleep OFTEN because all I want is a precious mix of myself and my amazing husband. I want so badly to look at that little face and say "yep, that's Josh's smile." I want that SO SO terribly bad. NEVER tell a woman who has pregnancy issues to "just have sex. It will happen." Well....I feel like a freakin porn star with how much sex we're having. OH! And those of you who say "just get drunk and do it." Seriously? Because now I feel like an alcoholic. I know I'm not the only one who's going through this but you'd think these people have no idea what pregnancy problems are! If I hear one more person tell me to "just get pregnant" or "just have a baby" I will probably throw my computer through their window. I will have a meltdown. If I could "just get pregnant" I'd have a 2 year old right now. Please, never ever say this to a woman.

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